Archive for March, 2010

TIWH: March 19th

By Tia Ayers

March 19, 2009
David Letterman & Regina Lasko

Letterman & Lasko

A year ago today, David Letterman married his longtime girlfriend Regina Lasko. Their ceremony took place at the Teton County Courthouse in Choteau, Montana. According to People Magazine, their truck got stuck in the mud on the way to the ceremony.Only a few close friends and their five-year-old son, Harry, were in attendance.

With Letterman spending most of his time in New York and Lasko living at their Montana ranch, their relationship was sure to have its share of hurdles. But just how big those obstacles were became public in October when Letterman admitted to having an affair with an employee.

He apologized on air to his wife and although she has remained quiet on the subject, the couple are still together – if you count being thousands of miles apart “together.”

Here’s to getting through the first year and hopes that in the next year, their marriage stays out of the headlines!

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Ask Grace: Money…it’s what we want!

By Social Grace

Dear Grace,

I have lived with my BF for over three years. We have everything we need and we don’t want to register for gifts. Honestly, we want to go to Hawaii for our honeymoon and we just want money to go towards that. How do we ask for money without being tacky?

From,

Poor in Manhattan

Dear Poor,

Unfortunately, there is no polite way to ask for money … on paper. Your best bet is to ask some family members to spread it around verbally so you don’t have to. However, I think the modern age would be a bit forgiving if you set up a website for your cause. However, I understand wanting to do something different, perhaps you can go the modern route and create a website all about your honeymoon to Hawaii? You can then explain your reasons for your request for cash gifts more clearly, and you can share photos from your trip!

Whatever the case may be, register! Even if you would prefer money you will receive gifts no matter what, so you might as well control the odds and register for things you want! Remember: you can register for gift cards, and you can even set up a registry on sites like www.myregistry.com that give you the option to add literally any item, from any online store to one universal registry.

Use your options! In the end, you may regret asking for money.

Good luck!

xoxo,

Grace

Do you have a question for that need answering? E-mail me at askgrace@proposalmagazine.com.

Just for fun: Check out what Lazy Susan has to say. But be warned, do NOT take her advice!

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Lazy Susan: Money…it’s what we want!

By Lazy Susan

Today, Social Grace gave advice to a woman who wants money instead of gifts for her wedding. While Grace’s answer was full of tact and sensitivity, Lazy Susan insisted on weighing in too. So, with much reluctance, we bring you Lazy Susan’s response:

So you want money for your wedding. Well, money is one of my favorite things so I can definitely, help you there, lady.

Here’s four things you can do to get more money from your weddings guests:

1. Charge admission. Everyone’s dying to be at your shindig, right? Well, make them prove it by selling tickets. And if they want to sit in the front, let them know that they’re going to have to pay for it.

2. Be $ubtle. On your wedding invitation, replace all S’s with dollar signs. It’s $o $ubliminal, mo$t people won’t even notice thi$ hint!

3. Learn the return policy. In today’s world, every store accepts returns. Register for gifts as normal, but ask your guests to give you the receipts for your “scrapbook.” Then return all the gifts for cash!

4. Elope. Instead of trying to get money, focus on saving it instead. I bet the money you’d save on your dress, ceremony and reception would buy you at least two tickets to Hawaii.

EDITOR’S NOTE: Lazy Susan’s advice is purely for entertainment value. NEVER actually take her advice. For your best bet, see what Social Grace has to say!

Have a question for Social Grace (and Lazy Susan)? E-mail it to: askgrace@proposalmagazine.com.

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TIWH: March 18th

By Tia Ayers

March 18, 1994
Andy Richter & Sarah Thyre

Thyre & Richter

Andy Richter might best be known for playing sidekick to late night host Conan O’Brien. But before he was a famous second banana, he portrayed the head of the household, Mike Brady, in the play The Real Live Brady Bunch. While starring in the production in Los Angeles, he met actress, Sarah Thyre, who was also cast in the play.

With both having a background in comedy and improv, they hit it off immediately and three years later, they were married. Over the course of Richter’s run on Late Night with Conan O’Brien, Thyre appeared in several sketches. She also had a recurring role on the Comedy Central show Strangers With Candy.

The couple have a son and daughter named Willy and Mercy and they reside in Los Angeles. With both parents being comedians, there must be a lot of humor in their household.

Happy anniversary!

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Best of the Worst: Luck of the Irish

By Tia Ayers

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Siobhan’s favorite holiday was St. Patrick’s Day. So her boyfriend Henry decided that he would make this St. Patrick’s Day memorable by popping the question. He just hoped the luck of the Irish was on his side.

The two joined their friends on a pub crawl on the afternoon of the holiday. Because of the festivities, everyone was drinking, but no one more than Henry who had the extra anxiety on his shoulders.

The friends arrived at the final bar, which was to be their stomping grounds for the rest of the day. Henry approached the DJ and told him his plans and asked if he could use the PA system to propose to Siobhan.

“Awesome!” The DJ exclaimed and agreed to help.

Day became night and the bar was getting more and more crowded with people in green shirts, hats, shamrock antennae and more. The DJ found Henry and told him that he wanted him to propose after the next song.

With the moment approaching, Henry rushed to the restroom to prepare.

In the bathroom, he washed his face and rehearsed in the mirror.

“Siobhan, I love you, man,” he slurred at his reflection. “Be my, uh… Be my…”

The door swung open and the DJ stuck his head in.

“You ready, Henry?” The DJ asked.

Henry hiccuped as he looked over at the DJ. He gave him a wobbly thumbs up.

“Ready, ready, ready,” Henry mumbled, following the DJ out to the bar.

“Okay, guys. Before I play the next song, we got a special message from Henry,” The DJ said into the microphone.

He handed Henry the microphone.

“Well, my friends. We’re all here and you’re here…. and that’s why we’re here,” Henry began.

The crowd exchanged uncomfortable murmurs.

Henry spotted Siobhan in her green shirt and derby hat and took her hand.

“I love you, Siobhan. I love you so much a lot. Will you be my… my, uh, wife-lady?”

He bobbled as he tried to get down on one knee.

“I’m not Siobhan. I don’t know who the hell you are, buddy,” The girl answered back.

Henry widened his eyes and realized that even though the girl had the same red hair,  the same hat and shirt as Siobhan, that she was right. This was not his Siobhan.

“Henry!” The real Siobhan yelled from the back of the room.

Henry looked up.

“Henry, what are you doing?!” Siobhan screamed as he approached him.

“I was ask-asking you to be my married.”

Siobhan looked at the beautiful, emerald-encrusted Claddagh ring that he held in his hand.

“Henry, you’re drunk.”

“That doesn’t change the ways I feels about you,” he slurred back at her. “I love you all the time, every day.”

Siobhan looked at her silly boyfriend and couldn’t help but smile.

“All right. All right, I’ll marry you, you idiot,” she said.

The drunken crowd burst into applause. Henry tried to put the ring on her finger but he was seeing double.

“I can do it,” Siobhan said.

“No, no, no. I got it,” he insisted.

Henry stood up to attempt to put the ring on once again, but all the alcohol was catching up to him quick. As soon as he was on his feet, he stumbled back to the ground, passing out.

Should Siobhan reconsider her answer? Let us know what you think!

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TIWH: March 17th

By Shannon Ayers

March 17th 1905

Franklin Delano & Eleanor Roosevelt

Today in Wedding History marks the anniversary of FDR’s marriage to his bride Eleanor. Their historic romance began in 1902 when Eleanor was just 17 years old. She had been volunteering as a social worker and soon met Franklin, then a 20 year old Harvard student. The two began a courtship that would continue until their marriage in 1905. Because Eleanor’s uncle was then President of the United States (Theodore Roosevelt) their wedding garnered national attention with the media.

Little did this young couple know that one day they would run the White House longer than any other President in history. Franklin held position of President for three terms, from 1933-1945 and Eleanor would have a very important role in his Presidency. Due to FDR being bound to a wheelchair Eleanor was an active part of her husbands campaigns, traveling throughout the country representing him.

The two were married until Franklin passed away in 1945, but they carry their legacy on through family and the influence their relationship had on America during times of need, especially during WWII. Some would say their love was one for the history books!

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TIWH: March 16th

By Tia Ayers

March 16, 1980
Howie Mandel & Terry Soil

The Mandels

The Mandels

The comedian and TV game show host said “Deal!” to marriage on March 16, 1980. The Deal or No Deal star met his wife, Terry Soil, in high school and was immediately smitten.

In a recent interview with Good Housekeeping, Mandel revealed that it was her sense of humor that attracted him.

“She made me laugh. It was wonderful to meet a witty woman,” he said.

Although it was love at first sight for Mandel, that wasn’t the case for Soil. He was a troublemaker known for practical jokes and much shorter than her. When he finally asked her out, she brought her own date and a friend to accompany him. In what could be considered the worst date of all time, Mandel also managed to crash his car during the evening.

Despite this dating disaster, the two went out again and have been together ever since. Thirty years and three children later, the couple couldn’t be closer and their date nights continue. The Mandels go out for dinner every night.

Here’s to a special date night to the happy couple!

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Want to know more? Check out Mandel’s book “Here’s the Deal: Don’t Touch Me”!

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Grace’s Tip of the Day: Be kind, stay behind.

By Social Grace

http://www.flickr.com/photos/atwatervillage/ / CC BY-NC-SA 2.0

No tailgating!

For your safety, and for the sanity of the other drivers on the road, be sure to keep a safe distance between yourself and the cars in front of you. The rule of the matter is… if you are driving 65 mph, about 6-7 cars should be able to theoretically fit in between your car and the other person’s car, (one car’s length for every 10mph you are driving) This gives you time to break in case of emergency. And remember, this isn’t just a safety tip, this is common courtesy!

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Homeschooled Hostess: Surprise Cake!

By Shannon Ayers

About a month ago an old friend emailed me saying he was coming into town and that he was throwing a big surprise party for our mutual good friend. Knowing my “homeschooled hostess” status he asked me if I wanted to be involved in the planning, and I of course said yes. After volunteering to make the cake I asked him to give me   details of what he thought our friend would want at his party…perhaps a cake themed to go along with his fave movie/ band/ book…. His answer? “Let’s make a cake of his face.”

I had to think about this one … for a while… I can make a cake, I can make a themed cake … I can’t make a cake of someone’s face.

Or so I thought….

So, my friend got into town and we got busy working on our cake face. Since we were experimenting with making homemade fondant we decided to use a simple cake mix.

Once our cake was baked and had cooled to room temperature we were able to frost it entirely in basic vanilla butter cream frosting. Luckily, my friend Nick is an artist. Nick slimmed our 9in round, double layer cake, into an oval face shape and took the extra cake pieces that had been cut and fashioned them into a nose.

The fondant (which was made from marshmallows) was surprisingly easy to work with. We added some gel color (2 drops of yellow, 1 drop of red) and began kneading it into a peachy skin color and then rolled it out. Then we layed the thin layer of fondant over our sculpted cake and Nick began molding the peach colored fondant, adding indintions for a smile, lips and eyes. Our cake began to definitely come to life as we added brown hair and eyebrows.

As the time went by I couldn’t believe we actually created our friends face using yellow cake, butter cream frosting and fondant! It’s unbelievable!

My challenge to you: come up with something you could never imagine being a cake (or think of a cake you would only see on some fancy Food Network show) like a car, a building, an animal … Then by using a basic cake mix and the recipe we found below for homemade marshmallow fondant, simply create. Go with your gut and have fun. You really can’t mess up a cake! No matter what it looks like it will still taste yummy so have fun sculpting and working your fondant into something amazing!

** Tip: After your cakes have cooled you should cut the top rounded layer off before stacking them. By cutting this layer, the cake will sit more even on your surface and will be more structurally sound.

** Note: The glasses used in this cake were real glasses. ($2 dollar reading glasses from Target) We cut them down so they were fit evenly on the cake.

Homemade Marshmallow Fondant

Ingredients:

  • 8 ounces miniature marshmallows (4 cups not packed, or half of a 16-ounce bag)
  • 1 pound powdered sugar (4 cups), plus extra for dusting
  • 2 tbsp water
  • Food coloring or flavored extracts, optional

Preparation:

1. Dust your counter or a large cutting board with powdered sugar. Place the marshmallows and the water in a large microwave-safe bowl. Microwave on high for 1 minute, until the marshmallows are puffy and expanded.

2. Stir the marshmallows with a rubber spatula until they are melted and smooth. If some unmelted marshmallow pieces remain, return to the microwave for 30-45 seconds, until the marshmallow mixture is entirely smooth and free of lumps. If you want colored or flavored fondant, you can add several drops of food coloring or extracts at this point and stir until incorporated. If you want to create multiple colors or flavors from one batch of fondant, do not add the colors or flavors now. Instead, refer to step 6 below for instructions.

3. Add the powdered sugar and begin to stir with the spatula. Stir until the sugar begins to incorporate and it becomes impossible to stir anymore.

4. Scrape the marshmallow-sugar mixture out onto the prepared work surface. It will be sticky and lumpy, with lots of sugar that has not been incorporated yet–this is normal. Dust your hands with powdered sugar, and begin to knead the fondant mixture like bread dough, working the sugar into the marshmallow with your hands.

5. Continue to knead the fondant until it smoothes out and loses its stickiness. Add more sugar if necessary, but stop adding sugar once it is smooth–too much sugar will make it stiff and difficult to work with. Once the fondant is a smooth ball, it is ready to be used. You can now roll it out, shape it, or wrap it in cling wrap to use later. Well-wrapped fondant can be stored in a cool room or in the refrigerator, and needs to be kneaded until supple before later use.

6. If you want to add coloring or flavoring to your fondant, flatten it into a round disc. You might want to wear gloves to avoid getting food coloring on your hands during this step. Add your desired amount of coloring or flavoring to the center of the disc, and fold the disc over on itself so that the color or flavor is enclosed in the center of the fondant ball.

7. Begin to knead the ball of fondant just like you did before. As you work it, you will begin to see streaks of color coming through from the center. Continue to knead until the streaks are gone and the fondant is a uniform color. Your fondant is now ready to be used or stored as outlined above.

*** RECIPE COPIED FROM http://candy.about.com/od/fondantcandyrecipes/r/mm_fondant.htm CHECK OUT THERE SITE FOR A TUTORIAL ON MAKING THIS YUMMY FROSTING.

Happy Hostessing!

love,

shannon

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From Red Carpet to White Wedding

By Liza Treyger
Red Carpet

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Just like weddings, the Academy Awards is full of traditions. Every year, Meryl Streep loses, J. Lo is a hot mess and Penelope Cruz looks exactly the same.

I didn’t see any of the nominated film except for Up in the Air and The Blind Side, so I don’t have many opinions about the movies. But really, who cares? Everyone knows it’s all about the gowns. And with just a few tweaks, most of the gowns can become wedding dresses.

This year, there were three main looks, so if you want to put a little Oscar fashion into your wedding, pick one and read on!

1. Bling, bling, bling
2. Ruffles, ruffles, ruffles,
3. Draping, draping, draping

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