Archive for March, 2010

TIWH: March 31st

By Shannon Ayers

March 31, 1996
Clint Eastwood & Dina Ruiz

Today in wedding history Clint Eastwood married Dina Ruiz. Clint, the famous actor and director met Dina, a reporter & news anchor, when she interviewed him in 1993.

The two married three years later in a surprise ceremony at the Shadow Creek Golf Course in Las Vegas, planned by Eastwood himself!

As quoted in his biography, Clint said,  ”Dina keeps me on my toes, let’s put it that way. We both enjoy family a lot, we both enjoy pets and we love to play golf. To me, as I said, life is like the back nine in golf. Sometimes you play better on the back nine. You may not be stronger, but hopefully you’re wiser.”

The couple have been married for 14 years and have one daughter together. Congratulations from us at Proposal!

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Pro Q&A Series: aNeMonE Handmade Paper Flowers

By Shannon Ayers

We at Proposal have fallen in love: we are now romancing the paper flower! When we first saw Washington based aNeMonE’s work we were absolutely floored. Beautiful, exquisite and unique, these flowers are made by hand, can be shipped anywhere in the world and will last you a lifetime. We repeat: they will last you a lifetime!

We were lucky enough to talk with Mary Eberle, co-owner of aNeMonE, and learn more about her craft and her business! Enjoy!

PROPOSAL: What is your role in the Wedding Industry & how long have you been working in your position? 

ME: aNeMonE is the front-runner of custom-made bridal bouquets. We have found others who make flowers out of paper, but we have not found anyone making custom-designed bridal bouquets using art quality papers, beads, and coloring media. We have done weddings all over the country and ship flowers all over the world. We have been working with brides for 7 ½ years!

PROPOSAL: How long have you been making handmade flowers & how was aNeMonE formed?

ME: aNeMonE was born in November of 2002 after Nathan & Mary Eberle’s passion for art culminated in 600 paper flowers for their wedding. The business has since bloomed into a full-scale paper florist, transforming this vintage craft into a unique, modern art form.

PROPOSAL: Your work is clearly very unique, however, is there something about the way you work or a particular product that would be considered your signature?

ME: The fact that we can create both realistic flowers and fantasy flowers and that we use precious stones, beads and anything special that the bride has, like grandma’s brooch or a sleeve from mom’s wedding dress!

PROPOSAL: How many weddings or events have you created flowers for?

ME: Over 200.

PROPOSAL: Where can we find your site?

ME: http://handmadepaperflowers.com/weddings/

PROPOSAL: What are the benefits of having paper flowers at a wedding opposed to real flowers?

ME: Originally we would have told you that the benefits would have been that the flowers are created uniquely for the bride, the flowers are available in advance, thus eliminating all color and wilting problems, and that we are an eco-friendly option over real flowers. Over the years, however, we have come to realize that our brides primarily choose aNeMonE flowers because they get to keep them forever.

PROPOSAL: What would be helpful for a Bride & Groom to know or have in mind before they were to consult with you?

ME: It is always helpful if a bride and groom have a budget in mind. This is not totally necessary, as we can usually meet any budget. There are some people who think the flowers are paper, so they must be cheaper. This of course would be true if you make them yourself. We have tried very hard to match the cost of real flowers and in many cases we can, we do however mostly work with brides that consider there flowers to be works of art; because they get to keep them, they are willing to spend more than they would have on live flowers.

PROPOSAL: What piece of advice do you give a Bride or Groom (involving your field) that will impact how they plan their big day?

ME: Our number one word of advice is for the bride and groom to have fun. The wedding is only a party to celebrate the union of the couple. Too many people get hung up on the details, and when the day comes they cannot have fun. Our brides have hired professionals to take care of the details for them, so we try to remind them there is no need to worry. The other word of wisdom is that there are no rules to follow. This is your wedding so do what expresses you best!

PROPOSAL: What was one of your most fun experiences while working with a Bride & Groom?

ME: We have had so many fun moments. We work with brides who want to think outside of the box, so every wedding is different and creative.

PROPOSAL: What was one of the most challenging or unexpected things that happened during one of your jobs?

ME: The only challenges seem to come when the brides do not hire wedding planners; we come to set up the flowers, and in many cases we end up going the extra mile to ensure that our flowers look great against the unplanned venue. We always recommend hiring help if the bride has big plans and little experience executing plans. Once at a wedding, a cake traveled 3 hours to get there and showed up completely destroyed. The resort came to us for help, wondering if we had extra flowers to cover their reconstruction! We did, and the cake turned out looking great, covered with flowers that were not planned for it. No one but the bride and family knew it was missing a full layer.

PROPOSAL: How do you face a Bride who has turned in to her alter ego (a.k.a. Bridezilla)?

ME: We have had a few brides turn into what most would call a “bridezilla” and we in turn give them extra attention and every time the bride turns into our biggest fan sending many referrals our way!

PROPOSAL: Does your company have any exciting features or news that we can showcase in this article?

ME: aNeMonE was named by the Knot 2010 top 10 florist in Washington State!

PROPOSAL: Are you married?

ME: Yes.

PROPOSAL: Tell us about your proposal.

ME: We had traveled from Nashville to my home town in WA State to attend a wedding of a friend of mine, my husband asked my father while we were there, we then flew back out east, and drove to Milwaukee WI (where Nathan is from) for a music festival over the fourth of July. I knew Nathan way planning on asking me but did not know he had been traveling with my ring all this time! At one point we were leaving our picnic area and he was bringing his backpack, I said, “what are you doing? It’s 100 degrees leave the back pack here” he didn’t hesitate and threw my ring on the ground unattended!! If he had hesitated I would have known. (I love surprises but hate knowing they are coming!) He later proposed during the grand finale of fireworks and I started to laugh. He said, “Is that yes?”!!

PROPOSAL: Tell us about your wedding.

ME: Our wedding was before we knew anything about weddings. We did everything ourselves and planned it on a shoestring. Being artists we wanted to incorporate art as much as we could. We had a friend paint us while we said our vows, we had other friends dance, and then we of course made our flowers out of paper. We wanted a very traditional feel, yet we wanted to throw in the artist flare. I walked down the aisle to a Bjork song!

Thank you so much Mary for sharing your story with us! Be sure to check out more of aNeMonE’s work on their website:  http://handmadepaperflowers.com/

See you next week when we feature another Wedding Pro!

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TIWH: March 30th

By Shannon Ayers

March 30, 1940

Walter Cronkite & Mary Elizabeth “Betsy” Maxwell

Today in wedding history news anchor Walter Cronkite married his sweetheart Betsy Maxwell.

They met one day in 1936, while both working at the KCMO radio station in Kansas City, Missouri. Cronkite has been quoted as saying he fell in love with her the first moment he saw her! It only took a few months of dating and the two became engaged. They married in the Grace and Holy Trinity Episcopal Church.

The two stayed strong through 64 years of marriage. Walter has said, “Meeting such a bright and supportive woman brought me a lifetime of joy and tenderness. And for me, that was key.” Walter and Betsy, had three children and even more grandchildren.



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Week 9: Pick the Perfect Proposal

By Tia Ayers

Last week, Ari and John won our weekly contest. Will they win again this week or will a new couple take the prize? You decide. Read the stories and vote below. Remember, you can vote once a day, so make sure you come back tomorrow to vote for your favorite couple!

1. Ariel Baruch & John Laing
Location: On top of Mt. Sugarloaf in Sunderland, MA
Date: Saturday Oct. 17, 2009

John & Ari

Ariel writes:
It is widely accepted that one of the most breath-taking parts of Fall in New England is experiencing peak foliage. John and I had planned on driving through the Valley, camera in hand, to capture pictures of the changing leaves, something neither of them was accustomed to growing up in Florida.

After more than an hour of traveling (and no good pictures to show), we made their way to the top of Mount Sugarloaf, a mountain looking over the Valley in Sunderland, MA. It was a brisk Fall morning, one of the first truly cold days of the season, so there were only a few other people at the top. The view was incredible — I was busy snapping pictures when John directed her towards a patch in a field below. “What’s that?” he had asked, pointing at the field. After a few minutes of staring at the field, then at John, then back at the field, I finally understood what was happening.

With the assistance of a pumpkin patch, John proposed. Using roughly 1,000 pumpkins, the message “Ari, please marry me!” was laid out before me.

2. Ashley McElwee & Ryan Sjuts
Location: New York, NY
Date: September, 2009

Ashley & Ryan

Ashley writes:
Back in September I took Ryan to New York City. For Midwestern boy it was a big adventure and I loved sharing it with him. We had a blast walking around and seeing all the sites.

We went to Central Park on the last day in New York City- everyone has to have a hotdog once right? So Ryan suggest we eat up on a hill away from everyone else but still in sight of the lake because it would be more “romantic”. Now he never uses phrases like “more romantic” so I knew something might be up.

So he was really quiet and I was eating really slow. All he was thinking was hurry up and eat your hotdog so I can ask you to marry me! So I finally finish and asked him if he had a good time on the trip- his response?

“The only thing that would make this trip better is if you would spend the rest of your life with me.”

Blown. Away.

Turned to look at him and he was holding the ring. He said afterwards that he wished he had gotten down on one knee- but to me it was perfect.

3. Evelyn Protano & Omar Abdelhamid
Location: Philadelphia, PA
Date: February 13, 2010

Evelyn & Omar

Evelyn writes:
Omar and I got engaged the night before Valentine’s Day. For this story to make sense, you need to know that Omar and I have a thing with penguins, which started when he bought me a giant stuffed penguin when I was having a rough time at work. It’s been a running joke ever since.

Anyway, Omar said he didn’t want to wait to exchange gifts on Valentine’s Day, and suggested that we exchange gifts right then. Omar gave me three bags, one small, one medium, and one large. I opened the small bag, and it contained a set of penguin nesting dolls! In the middle of the first set of nesting dolls was a note that said, open bag number 2.

In the second bag, was another set of penguin nesting dolls! At the middle of this set, was a note that said open bag number 3. I opened the third and largest bag, and it contained two giant penguin nesting dolls! Inside the second nesting doll, was a black box with a beautiful ring. He proposed, and I said yes. :-)

Now that you’ve read the stories, it’s time to vote for your favorite! You can vote once a day until Friday at 12:05am. Results will be posted on Friday morning!


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TIWH: March 29th

By Daniella Flores

March 29, 1939
Clark Gable & Carole Lombard

Clark Gable and Carole Lombard met several times throughout their lives, and with each meeting they’d only become closer. They starred in the 1932 film No Man of Her Own, but both were married at the time and were cordial with one another.

In 1936, during the celebration of screenwriter Donald Ogden Stewart’s wife’s release from a sanitarium, Lombard came riding in an ambulance, in a nightgown, and on a stretcher. Gable found it in poor taste. After an argument, they decided to settle it with a tennis match, and played until it became so dark that they couldn’t see.

Their next meeting was at the annual Mayfair Ball a couple of months later, and they danced all night. Accounts from that night afterward differ, however. One is that as they danced, Gable discovered Lombard wasn’t wearing any underwear. He proposed they go back to his hotel. Her response? “Who do you think you are, Clark Gable?” Another account states that they disappeared but only ended up driving around for a couple of hours.

Either way, he left angry, but she made it up to him the next morning when he found birds in his bedroom, birds she had sent and asked the hotel staff to put in. One carried a note that said “How about it? -Carole” That sparked their famous relationship.

Gable eventually divorced Ria Langham on March 7, 1939, and proposed to Lombard at a phone booth at the famous Brown Derby restaurant. Doing their best to avoid the press. they headed for Kingman, Arizona at dawn. Once they got there, they immediately got their license at the courthouse and to the church to be married. They drove back to Beverly Hills, only to receive the press in the morning with only a few hours of sleep. You can view the newsreel here.

Their marriage unfortunately ended in 1942, when Lombard’s plane crashed in Las Vegas. Though he married twice after,  it has been stated that their time together were the happiest years of his life, and that he was never the same after her death.

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TIWH: March 28th

By Daniella Flores

March 28th, 1987
Nora Ephron & Carl Bernstein

It was on this day in 1987 that Nora Ephron made her happiness official. After a painful breakup from previous husband Carl Bernstein (and writing a novel based on his affair), she married screenwriter Nicholas Pileggi. This would be her third marriage.

They are still married to this day. So what kind of advice can Ephron give us in order to maintain a happy marriage? She says: “One is marry a man who was unhappily married to someone else for 17 years; one is marry an Italian, that’s a very good secret; and one is never marry a man you wouldn’t want to be divorced from. Those are my three secrets of marriage.”

Not convinced? Ephron has claimed that her husband is also very romantic. “He used to bring me bags of subway tokens because I was always losing them in my handbag – I can’t tell you how romantic that was. I don’t think Italian men are more romantic, but I have done better being married to an Italian man than to the two who came before, who weren’t Italian.”

Happy (and hopefully very romantic) anniversary to you both!

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TIWH: March 27th

By Tia Ayers

March 27, 1979
Eric Clapton & Pattie Boyd

Boyd & Clapton on their wedding day

It’s not often when an ex-husband is invited to his former wife’s wedding ceremony. But in the case of Pattie Boyd, not only was her ex George Harrison present, he also performed at the reception.

Legendary guitarist Eric Clapton fell in love with Boyd when she was married to the former Beatle. He wrote the song “Layla” confessing his love for her and asking her to “please don’t say we’ll never find a way and tell me all my love’s in vain.”

Despite Clapton’s advances, Boyd remained faithful to Harrison, who had immortalized her in the song “Something” (read about their marriage here). As their marriage was falling apart, Clapton and her became good friends.

The story goes that Clapton went to Harrison (a longtime friend of his) and revealed that he and Boyd were in love. In response, Harrison told Clapton that he could have her.

Two years later, they married in Tuscon, Arizona in a ceremony that was conducted entirely in Spanish. Along with Harrison, their guests included Paul McCartney, Ringo Starr, Mick Jagger and Elton John, just to name a few.

Unfortunately, their marriage was full of problems including drug addiction and infidelity, and the couple divorced in 1988.

Even though their love wasn’t destined to last forever, it did produce the song “Wonderful Tonight”, a wedding dance favorite, which Clapton wrote for Boyd. To this day, the couple remain close friends.

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Results: Proposal of the Week Contest (Week 8)

By admin

John & Ari

Congratulations to our newest Proposal of the Week winners: Ari Baruch & John Laing. Come back on Monday to see them try to defend their title against two new couples! Here’s their story:

Ariel Baruch & John Laing
Location: On top of Mt. Sugarloaf in Sunderland, MA
Date: Saturday Oct. 17, 2009

Ariel writes:
It is widely accepted that one of the most breath-taking parts of Fall in New England

is experiencing peak foliage. John and I had planned on driving through the Valley, camera in hand, to capture pictures of the changing leaves, something neither of them was accustomed to growing up in Florida.

After more than an hour of traveling (and no good pictures to show), we made their way to the top of Mount Sugarloaf, a mountain looking over the Valley in Sunderland, MA. It was a brisk Fall morning, one of the first truly cold days of the season, so there were only a few other people at the top. The view was incredible — I was busy snapping pictures when John directed her towards a patch in a field below. “What’s that?” he had asked, pointing at the field. After a few minutes of staring at the field, then at John, then back at the field, I finally understood what was happening.

With the assistance of a pumpkin patch, John proposed. Using roughly 1,000 pumpkins, the message “Ari, please marry me!” was laid out before me.

Do you have a great proposal story? Email us at yourstory@proposalmagazine.com !

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TIWH: March 26th

By Daniella Flores

March 26, 1994

Ricki Lake & Rob Sussman

Love can be scary. For Ricki Lake, however, it was really easy to take the plunge, even during the scariest time of the year.

Lake met artist, illustrator, bartender, and future-husband Rob Sussman at a Halloween party in 1993. She claimed that “I never believed in love at first site until I met him”. She was enamored with him, especially since he had no clue who she was, despite the fact that her talk show was already in full force. They hit it off so well that they forgot the dinner date they had planned for after the party and went straight to the hotel room!

While neither could remember where exactly Sussman proposed, the marriage talks began after only three days of knowing each other. Two weeks later, Sussman moved in with Lake. The couple eventually married in Las Vegas on this day in 1994. They remained married for nine years and had two children.

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TIWH: March 25th

By Tia Ayers

March 25, 1969
Roy & Barbara Orbison

Roy & Barbara Orbison

Roy Orbison, one of rock ‘n’ roll’s pioneers, married his wife, Barbara, 41 years ago today. They met in Leeds in 1968, while Orbison was on tour in Britain and Barbara was just 17 years old.

“He saw me across the room and he wanted to meet me and I finally came over to say hello and we never really said goodbye,” she told a reporter in 2008.

A year later, the couple was married in Nashville, Tennessee. Mrs. Orbison helped manage his career and was also the executive producer of his 1987 album, In Dreams: The Greatest Hits.

Often, rock ‘n’ roll marriages don’t last, but that wasn’t the case for this couple.

“He took me wherever he went and he always made me feel like I was the only one that mattered,” Mrs. Orbison said.

The couple remained together until his death in 1988. Upon his passing, Mrs. Orbison committed herself to promoting his music and raising money for charity. She also keeps his name alive by personally funding “The Orbison House” a 21-unit residence for the mentally impaired homeless of Los Angeles, CA.

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