Archive for February, 2010

Homeschooled Hostess: A Sweet Engagement

By Shannon Ayers

While looking through an old issue of Martha Stewart Weddings I came across this great cupcake design that is the perfect treat for an Engagement Party. Of course, Martha’s cupcakes are stunning, so I wanted to challenge myself and try and create them for myself.

The instructions in the magazine said to cover the cupcakes with fondantcomparingcupcakes however I don’t like the taste of fondant so I used just traditional vanilla frosting. The ring on top is easier to make than you think: you just need fondant (a little bit isn’t too bad) and some fun edible embellishments!

Don’t worry if you have never worked with fondant; just treat it like edible play-doh. Roll the fondant into very small lines that you can mold into a ring shape. Then roll a small ball of fondant and secure on top of your ring shape with a bit of vanilla frosting to act as the glue. Push your sprinkles or “jewels” (I used pearl sprinkles) into the ball of fondant.

As you can see… mine aren’t nearly as perfect as Martha’s!! But they are definitely yummy and they are a very fun and cute way to add a little bit of extra sweetness to your Engagement Party!

This is my very first attempt so I will be trying these again for sure very soon. Hope you are able to try some for yourself! Let me know how they turn out!!

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Pro Q&A Series: Mathew Hornbeek

By Shannon Ayers

With last Friday’s feature article on the best wedding dances, we started thinking about music. After all, it’s one of the most important aspects to making a great party. Sure your reception is more than just a party, but it can still be ruined without the right music. We thought we’d get some advice from an expert so that you don’t end up with an empty dance floor!

Matthew Hornbeek, Founder of Loud DJs

Mathew Hornbeek, Founder of Loud DJs

Mathew Hornbeek is the founder of Loud DJs, Los Angeles and Ventura County’s premier disc jockey service. In the five years since his company opened, Loud DJs has grown to be an empire in the Southern California DJ world.

PROPOSAL: Thanks for taking your time to answer our questions, Mathew. Could you start by telling us about your role in the wedding industry?

MH: My job is to provide music and order to a wedding—or any event, whilst localizing “chaos” to the dance-floor and keeping worries away from a stressed Bride and Groom’s most special evening… all with style and class.

PROPOSAL: What first got you interested in being a DJ?

MH: I first became interested in DJ-ing in high school. A friend of mine was having a birthday party in her backyard and couldn’t afford a DJ. She gave me a call and that weekend I arrived with a surround sound system and a desktop computer to play some music at her party.

Prior to that day, I had never considered being a DJ but I’ve always been interested in music, I produced my first song, myself, when I was twelve and already had a large music collection. Not terribly long after that first gig I began amassing equipment and experience by doing friends’ parties, and soon friends-of-friends, and so forth.

PROPOSAL: How was Loud DJs formed?

MH: Loud DJs started in its earliest stages in 2005 as a side project while I went to college and worked for another much larger disc jockey company. I hired two other DJs to perform at events. By 2007, all three of us were busy with events back-to-back solely for Loud DJs. We continue today and take those years of hard work and experience with us.

PROPOSAL: What about the way you work is different from other DJs?

MH: As I’m sure all of our past clientele would agree, we really can mix music. I’ve seen a lot of mobile DJs and found that most are less disc jockeys and more announcers.

Don’t get me wrong, being able to keep an event smooth and organized over a microphone is a talent that requires loads of experience and confidence, which is something we bring to every event.But we find few mobile DJs that really shine in smoothly mixing music.

I suppose the talent of mixing and remixing in all the ways you would expect in a downtown Hollywood club is something we provide that many others do not. Every Loud DJ is an experienced master of ceremonies and disc jockey. Each of us regularly performs at clubs across LA County and Ventura County.

PROPOSAL: What would be helpful for a bride and groom to know or have in mind before they were to consult with you?

MH: Some couples have their wedding extensively planned out prior meeting with us which can never hurt, and some haven’t really thought it out yet. Either situation is fine with us, in fact, we are very happy to help out a couple with some direction and professional advice in organizing their wedding. While we are DJs and not wedding planners, we do know heaps of insider information and can help suggest great vendors in the area.

PROPOSAL: When faced with a bride and groom who don’t have their reception style planned out, how do you guide them into determining the style of their event as far as music is concerned?

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MH: An experienced DJ will have a natural ability to read crowds fairly well, even on the spot. Every decade had its own unique style of music and culture attached to it and so observing the various age groups at a wedding can give me a good estimation of the music they like.

There are also a few tricks we have involving neutral dance songs, and seeing who taps their feet, bobs their head, etc. Also, I usually will ask the couple a bit about their family’s background beforehand, which may contain some clues, or ask a guest at the party who they like. But of course, as I discuss with almost every bride and groom, music selection always turns out best received when it is eclectic.

Oh, and if the whole family is present, Grandma may not want to dance to 50-Cent, so I suggest saving it for later!

PROPOSAL: What was one of your most fun experiences while working with a bride and groom?

MH: To be honest I have fun with every couple. If I didn’t feel a distinct connection to the clients I work with, I probably am not the right DJ for them. I work to see people smile when their favorite tune comes on, or the look on parents’ faces while they watch their children make a big step in life.

But of course, there are those couples that certainly stick out in my mind as absolute riots. I seem to get a lot of those! To give you an idea, the first wedding Loud DJs ever performed had a very elegant, spiritual ceremony, pulled off beautifully. But just to throw everyone off-track, the bride and groom had me play “Cotton-Eyed Joe” as the recessional song.  They locked arms and whirled down the aisle while laughter erupted. The night continued in that fashion from that point onward.

PROPOSAL: What was one of the most challenging or unexpected things that happened during one of your jobs?

MH: The most challenging issues usually occur as a result of poor planning. I had a wedding last year where the day of the wedding the couple had me change important cue songs for various bits of the wedding and rearranged the order of certain events. This was a fairly complex wedding already so this was certainly challenging and unexpected.

Of course, we accommodated everything and the night went very well, but remember, accommodating any change at a wedding means that the right people have to be in the right places at the right time all according to a new schedule.

Every vendor and individual hired at a wedding and the wedding party need to be up to speed on things, and even with small last minute changes there need to be a lot of people notified. DJs play a big part in the organization of a wedding and often getting everyone in the right spot is up to us.

PROPOSAL: Have you ever faced a bride who turned into her altar ego?

MH: No bridezillas yet, but I have seen my fair share of stressed-out couples. I even once saw a bride get so stressed out that a doctor was called out to the event.

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MH: One of the things that we’re just starting to get out in the world is the new “Level III” package which is a full concert-level lighting and sound set-up. We bring gigantic speakers and a 20-ft trussing system covered in lights and lasers for the discerning client that wants a club wherever they so desire.

Additionally, this year we’re planning on starting another Loud DJs in Myrtle Beach, SC, and taking bookings for mid-March, June, and early August to start things out. We should be issuing more details in by the beginning of March.

PROPOSAL: Where can our readers find out more?

MH: You can find our site at LoudDJs.com, which is a website that we proudly designed ourselves and keep very up to date.

PROPOSAL: Well, good luck with the new “office”! Before we let you go, do you have any other advice for brides and grooms that will impact their big day?

MH: The biggest piece of advice I can give to clients is to ask questions to people that work in the industry. Vendors, including us DJs, work day in and day out on special events and weddings. Talk is cheap and asking a few questions to an experienced professional could save you lots of time and maybe even some cash.

Other than that,relax. It’s a big day, so get ready to enjoy it!

Well said, Mathew. And thanks again for taking the time to answer our questions!

Make sure to check out more about Mathew and Loud DJs at www.louddjs.com!

Check back next Tuesday for another interview with a Wedding Pro!

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TIWH: February 16th

By Tia Ayers

February 16, 1786
James Monroe & Elizabeth Kortright

The Monroes

The Monroes

Today in wedding history, at the age of 27, attorney and future president James Monroe married 17-year-old debutante, Elizabeth Kortright.

Monroe met Kortright in 1785 when he was serving as a member of the Continental Congress in New York City. A year later, they were married in the city and honeymooned on Long Island. They wasted no time before starting their family, having their first daughter, Eliza, later that year.

The couple planned to settle in Virginia, but because of his career in politics, they often moved around. They had two more children (one died in infancy) and in 1817, Monroe was elected president and they moved into the White House.

The Monroes hold the distinction for having hosted the first wedding in the White House. In March of 1820, they gave their daughter’s hand in marriage to a White House staff member in front of 42 close friends and family.

Interested in making some of the Monroe Family dishes?

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Grace’s Tip of the Day: The Prepared Hostess

By Social Grace
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Keep extra sheets & pillow cases handy just in case you have a visitor. Any good hostess must be ready for what (or who) might come her way.

This might seem like a silly tip but in all honesty things happen. A friend might drink a little too much and need to stay on your couch. Someone else might come to you in a time of need.

Having one spare set of sheets will not only make you feel more confident as a hostess, but more importantly, it will make your guest feel more comfortable and it will allow them to feel at home.

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What to Wear When You’re Expecting

By Liza Treyger
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Can you still wear white?

A few years back, celebrities started getting knocked up before their wedding days and it has become the latest rage. These days, nearly every bridal shop has a maternity section.

My mother was way ahead of the trend and she got married when she was eight and a half months pregnant with me (her second child) in a blue and white polka dotted dress in communist Russia in 1987. Sad thing is that there are no pictures because my mom felt ugly, but she also had a moustache so I can’t be blamed entirely.

Pregnant brides don’t have to feel ugly anymore with all the options out there today. Staying sober at my wedding is not an option, but if you’re okay with not getting drunk at your party (READ: you don’t have a choice!), then let the planning begin…

Just make sure to follow these fashion tips:

1. Can you still wear white? Of course! If everyone followed the rule that only virgins can wear “the color of purity”, there wouldn’t be any white weddings anymore. You’re a lady who plays by her own rules and that means any color goes.

2. Fittings, fittings, fittings. Be aware that your body will be changing all the way down to the wire and you need to get a dress that will work with you. Your boobs will grow, a lot; get a dress that will support them.

3. Yeah, you need support, but show off your big boobs. They will never look this good again.

4. Going along with fit, make sure the dress is empire waist or very formfitting or you will look like a tent.

5. NO A-line or princess dresses.

6. NO Mermaid dresses…you will look like a Russian nesting doll.

7. NO dropped or natural-waisted dresses.

8. Be inventive with bling accessories like a brooch or innovative headpiece to move people’s eyes.

On the following pages, I’ve picked out my do’s and dont’s.

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Week 3: Pick the Perfect Proposal!

By Tia Ayers

Jeremy and Jaime won last week’s contest. Will they defend their title this week or will a new couple beat them out? You decide!

Remember you can vote once a day. The poll closes at 12:05 am PST on Friday!

1. Jeremy Caul & Jaime Imbeault
Location: Kekabeka Falls in Thunder Bay, Ontario, Canada
Date: November 6, 2009

Jeremy & Jaime

Jeremy & Jaime


Jeremy writes:

Jaime, and I are students, living in Thunder Bay, ON, Canada. We’ve been together for almost two years now, and have lived together the whole time. In October, my great-grandmother passed away, leaving me feeling like life was short. Since I love Jaime and was planning on proposing soon anyway, I decided to go out and get a ring. Once the ring was in my coat pocket, I knew I couldn’t wait.

Three days later, during the four-hour drive home for the funeral, we stopped at Kekabeka falls; a local falls just outside Thunder Bay. My excuse was that I needed to take some pictures for my photography class, which was partially true. We walked around the falls a while taking some pics, and it was the first beautiful, sunny day in a long stretch of rainy days – this is how I knew that today was the day.

I asked her to pose for a picture, leaning on the rail looking towards the falls with her back to me. I didn’t even take the picture but when I told her I was done, she turned around and I was on one knee with the ring box open in my hand. She didn’t even let me stand up to put the ring on! She was so excited that she immediately dropped to her knees to give me a hug and kiss, nearly knocking the ring out of her hand.

Today, we are happier than ever. We hope to graduate and begin working in three years time, and then we will have our wonderful wedding. The date we have just chosen is August 23, 2013 – which will be our 5 and a half year anniversary. I love my wife-to-be, and we plan on having a great, long, life together.

2. Jonathan Stahl & Amy Stewart
Location: Paris, France
Date: August, 2007

Amy & Jonathan

Amy & Jonathan

Jonathan writes:
It was the summer after college graduation and Amy (my then-girlfriend soon-to-be-fiancé now-wife) and I were on vacation in Paris, where we stayed at my uncle’s lavish apartment. She had chosen the ring several months prior and I had brought it with us on the trip.

She knew it was coming, but the question was when. As she tells it, she intentionally left the room for 10 minutes to give me time to hide it somewhere she wouldn’t see it until it was time to propose.

It happened in the Jarins de Luxembourg (Luxembourg Gardens). I told her to look at a statue or something, and when she turned back around I was on one knee with the ring. I told her that I hadn’t prepared any Earth-shatteringly romantic statement, and that I knew she loved shiny things, so I’d let the shininess of the ring speak for itself.

We then did it in the middle of the park, surrounded by onlookers. It’s all true (except maybe for that last part). You can ask Amy!

3.Bobby Black & April Price
Location: The canals of Amsterdam, Netherlands
Date: Friday, November 27, 2009

 

April & Bobby

April & Bobby

Bobby writes:
Each November, my company HIGH TIMES hosts The Cannabis Cup—the world’s biggest marijuana festival in Amsterdam. It was here, on Thanksgiving Day 2006, that I met the love of my life, April Price.

Since she was from Phoenix and I from New York, we spent the next year flying across the country to see each other—often at other pot-themed events. In August 2007, we embarked on a two-week desert odyssey—camping in Sedona and the Grand Canyon, a week at Burning Man, and a hot-tub weekend in Vegas. By the end of the trip, I knew she was my soul mate and asked her to move in with me. In May 2008, she packed up her belongings and we drove cross-country together. She’s been with me ever since.

This November, we returned to Amsterdam for our fourth Cannabis Cup together. It was there, on a candlelight canal cruise in the City of Diamonds, that I dropped to my knee and asked her to be my wife. Tearfully, she replied, “I would be honored!” After the cruise, I brought her to our favorite pot-friendly bar Barney’s Uptown, where our friends were waiting to toast us with weed, hashish, and champagne.

Now that you’ve read the stories, it’s your turn to weigh in. The winning couple will be revealed Friday.

 

 

 

 

 

Submit your own proposal stories to be included in the contest!

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TIWH: February 15th

By Tia Ayers

February 15, 1867
Feodor Dostoyevsky & Anna Grigoryevna Snitkina

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The Dostoyevskis

In October of 1866 at the age of 44, Feodor Dostoyevsky, author of classics Crime and Punishment and The Brothers Karamazov, found himself in a predicament.

He had been contracted to write the novel The Gambler and only had a few weeks to finish. If he didn’t complete it on time, he had agreed that he would forfeit the money for all of his writings for the next nine years.

With the clock ticking, a friend suggested that he hire a stenographer so that he could dictate the story and save time.

Dostoyevsky took his friend’s advice and Anna Grigoryevna Snitkina, a 20-year-old typist, showed up at his door. Over the next few weeks, they spent every waking hour together and Dostoyevsky fell in love.

He was afraid of rejection, so he dictated his marriage proposal to her as a plot point in the novel. After getting her opinion on whether a younger woman would fall for a middle-aged man, he had the courage to ask her in real life.

She accepted, they finished the novel on time and were married only a few months later. In the years after their marriage, he produced some of his greatest works.

Writer’s block might be the worst affliction an author can encounter. But for Dostoyevsky, it ended up being one of the best things to ever happen to him. He and his wife were married for the rest of his life.


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TIWH: February 14th

By Tia Ayers

Hayek & Pinault

Hayek & Pinault

February 14, 2009
Salma Hayek & François-Henri Pinault

A wedding at city hall doesn’t sound like the most romantic location, but when it’s the Paris City Hall and Salma Hayek is the bride, that changes the picture a little bit.

Hayek married her French billionaire boyfriend François-Henri Pinault a year ago today in a small, civil ceremony.

Two months later Hayek and Pinault renewed their vows in front of famous friends and family. The masquerade-themed ceremony took place in Venice, where they met in 2006. Among their A-list guests were Penelope Cruz, Charlize Theron, Bono and Jacques Chirac (former president of France).

Hayek and Pinault became parents in September 2007 to a girl named Valentina. Then they decided to marry on Valentine’s Day.

This begs the question: Could this couple be obsessed with the holiday of love?

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TIWH: February 13th

By Tia Ayers

February 13, 1983
Jerry Lewis & SanDee Pitnick

The Lewis' minutes after they married (printed in The Boca Raton News).

The Lewis' minutes after they married (printed in The Boca Raton News).

Some people are superstitious of the number 13, but not Jerry Lewis. In fact,13 is his lucky number and that’s why he chose to marry SanDee Pitnick on this day in 1983.

Although Lewis first met Pitnick when he cast her as a disco dancer for his film “Hardly Working”, their relationship may have really blossomed from the “Florence Nightengale” effect. In 1982, when both were living in Las Vegas, Lewis had to have emergency heart surgery. He credited Pitnick with his recovery.

The couple married in a private ceremony in Key Biscaine, a resort island in Florida.

Fast-forward 27 years to today, the couple are parents to an 18-year-old daughter and are still very much in love.

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Dancing the Night Away

By Becky Yamamoto
Wedding Dance
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When reflecting on the dances I have seen in weddings past, awkward waltzes and freaky booty shaking to “Brick House” come to mind. But the times have changed, and with that change come sleek choreographed production numbers.

It’s become the norm to have at least one choreographed number in a wedding reception and now people have even incorporated dance into the procession (see Jill and Kevin). The Today show has highlighted wedding dance YouTube hits more than once and TLC had the show Rock the Reception dedicated to choreographing numbers for wedding parties.

Although this attention to dance has become very popular, this sort of production may not be for everyone’s special day. Whether you decide to include a dance number or not, everyone can appreciate these wedding parties getting down. (They were posted on YouTube, after all.)

Father Daughter Dance
So the Father and Daughter Dance is where everyone lets out that collective “Aw”. We get all misty eyed while we think about how daddy’s little girl is all grown up. These two Father Daughter dances have that sort of sentiment but they’re also downright goofy and so lovable!

Chicken Noodle Soup dance:
Who can resist an all-out dance? Even while dressed in their Sunday’s Best, this father and daughter rock the stage. I don’t know anyone’s dad who does the robot. Maybe I should make more friends.

 

NKOTB dance, start at 1:00:
This Father-Daughter dance starts out like any other slow dance, but when you get 1:00 in, this dance takes an unexpected turn. That’s right, they awkwardly dance to the New Kids on the Block. Maybe I am biased, since I was a huge fan of the New Kids, but you’ve gotta love the way these two dance. They’re so goofy! Who needs choreography when you’ve got heart?

Surprise/Evolution of Dance
If you make a seach for wedding dances on YouTube, you will inevitably find a series of Surprise dances and even more versions of the Evolution of Dance.

The “Original” Surprise Dance (dancing starts at :30 in):

These two claim to be the originators of the surprise dance. They did it all the way back in 2006. They start with a traditional waltz but the song transitions into a hip hop beat and the couple look at each other confused and before anyone knows what hit them, the newlyweds break into awesome choreographed number.

The Clay Family Surprise Dance
The whole Clay Family knows how to dance, even their kids. This couple is actually celebrating their 10th wedding anniversary so it’s not technically a wedding but they are dressed in wedding garb, so that’s pretty close.

Brian and Katie’s Evolution of Dance
The Evolution of Dance is a pretty popular choice for a wedding dance. It has it’s own following but that’s another story for another day. For those of you who don’t know, it is a medley of hits made popular by an inspirational comedian. The real boogey-ing starts at 1:34.

Pop cultural favorites
I didn’t think it could be done, but someone went out and did it. They went and recreated the Dirty Dancing finale! And if that weren’t enough, a few couples have found inspiration from none other than Michael Jackson.

Dirty Dancing
This couple from the UK looks like professional dancers. Maybe they are. All I know is that these two were so good I got lost in their dance. Seriously. They even do The Lift!

Thriller
Thriller seems like an obvious dance to replicate. Usually people reserve this dance for Halloween, but it looks like it’s become a very popular dance for weddings too. In this Thriller version, the groomsmen effectively take the reception by surprise. Well done, men. Well done.

OK Go
This might also seem like another no brainer, but I admit I hadn’t made the connection. The disco hit-makers OK Go made a splash with their simple but very specific choreography using treadmills, and I must admit I have a special place in my heart for this sort of dance.

The Best Wedding Entrance
You would think Best Wedding Entrance would be at the beginning of this article, but I decided to be different and put it at the end.

And finally, the video that made perhaps the largest viral hit on the web, Jill and Kevin’s highly spirited wedding procession. What an entrance they made. What an entrance.

And there we have it, a few examples of well-executed wedding dance numbers. I know there are plenty of dances I left out, but this is a great starting place to get inspiration for your own wedding dance. Whether you decide to do something more traditional or something a little outside of the box, just dance!

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