Archive for February 12th, 2010

Dancing the Night Away

By Becky Yamamoto
Wedding Dance
Image by 1uk3 via Flickr

When reflecting on the dances I have seen in weddings past, awkward waltzes and freaky booty shaking to “Brick House” come to mind. But the times have changed, and with that change come sleek choreographed production numbers.

It’s become the norm to have at least one choreographed number in a wedding reception and now people have even incorporated dance into the procession (see Jill and Kevin). The Today show has highlighted wedding dance YouTube hits more than once and TLC had the show Rock the Reception dedicated to choreographing numbers for wedding parties.

Although this attention to dance has become very popular, this sort of production may not be for everyone’s special day. Whether you decide to include a dance number or not, everyone can appreciate these wedding parties getting down. (They were posted on YouTube, after all.)

Father Daughter Dance
So the Father and Daughter Dance is where everyone lets out that collective “Aw”. We get all misty eyed while we think about how daddy’s little girl is all grown up. These two Father Daughter dances have that sort of sentiment but they’re also downright goofy and so lovable!

Chicken Noodle Soup dance:
Who can resist an all-out dance? Even while dressed in their Sunday’s Best, this father and daughter rock the stage. I don’t know anyone’s dad who does the robot. Maybe I should make more friends.

 

NKOTB dance, start at 1:00:
This Father-Daughter dance starts out like any other slow dance, but when you get 1:00 in, this dance takes an unexpected turn. That’s right, they awkwardly dance to the New Kids on the Block. Maybe I am biased, since I was a huge fan of the New Kids, but you’ve gotta love the way these two dance. They’re so goofy! Who needs choreography when you’ve got heart?

Surprise/Evolution of Dance
If you make a seach for wedding dances on YouTube, you will inevitably find a series of Surprise dances and even more versions of the Evolution of Dance.

The “Original” Surprise Dance (dancing starts at :30 in):

These two claim to be the originators of the surprise dance. They did it all the way back in 2006. They start with a traditional waltz but the song transitions into a hip hop beat and the couple look at each other confused and before anyone knows what hit them, the newlyweds break into awesome choreographed number.

The Clay Family Surprise Dance
The whole Clay Family knows how to dance, even their kids. This couple is actually celebrating their 10th wedding anniversary so it’s not technically a wedding but they are dressed in wedding garb, so that’s pretty close.

Brian and Katie’s Evolution of Dance
The Evolution of Dance is a pretty popular choice for a wedding dance. It has it’s own following but that’s another story for another day. For those of you who don’t know, it is a medley of hits made popular by an inspirational comedian. The real boogey-ing starts at 1:34.

Pop cultural favorites
I didn’t think it could be done, but someone went out and did it. They went and recreated the Dirty Dancing finale! And if that weren’t enough, a few couples have found inspiration from none other than Michael Jackson.

Dirty Dancing
This couple from the UK looks like professional dancers. Maybe they are. All I know is that these two were so good I got lost in their dance. Seriously. They even do The Lift!

Thriller
Thriller seems like an obvious dance to replicate. Usually people reserve this dance for Halloween, but it looks like it’s become a very popular dance for weddings too. In this Thriller version, the groomsmen effectively take the reception by surprise. Well done, men. Well done.

OK Go
This might also seem like another no brainer, but I admit I hadn’t made the connection. The disco hit-makers OK Go made a splash with their simple but very specific choreography using treadmills, and I must admit I have a special place in my heart for this sort of dance.

The Best Wedding Entrance
You would think Best Wedding Entrance would be at the beginning of this article, but I decided to be different and put it at the end.

And finally, the video that made perhaps the largest viral hit on the web, Jill and Kevin’s highly spirited wedding procession. What an entrance they made. What an entrance.

And there we have it, a few examples of well-executed wedding dance numbers. I know there are plenty of dances I left out, but this is a great starting place to get inspiration for your own wedding dance. Whether you decide to do something more traditional or something a little outside of the box, just dance!

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TIWH: February 12th

By Tia Ayers

February 12, 1997
National Freedom to Marry Day

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Thirteen years ago today, Lambda Legal, a gay rights advocacy law firm, founded National Freedom to Marry Day. The firm based out of Washington D.C. started the holiday to promote same-sex marriage.

Today the organization, now called Freedom to Marry, uses the entire week before Valentine’s Day to observe the holiday.

According to its website, “Freedom to Marry Day… is a day to celebrate and share our stories, reflect on the values of equality and love, while also engaging our neighbors in the movement for equality and fairness.”

When the state of California voted to legalize gay marriage, the first licenses given out to same-sex couples were on February 12, 2004, to commemorate this day. A few years later, the law was overturned and activists have been fighting the revocation ever since.

It hasn’t been all bad news for the cause, however. According to Freedom to Marry, there are five states that have legalized same-sex marriage, six that offer broad recognition to unions and seven that give limited recognition. In addition, the public’s approval of same-sex unions is 12 percent higher than it was in 2000.

To find out more about the organization and LGBT Rights, visit: http://www.freedomtomarry.org

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Results: Proposal of the Week Contest

By Shannon Ayers

Congratulations to our winners Jeremy Caul & Jaime Imbeault!

Check back next week to see Jeremy & Jaime take on two new couples!

Jeremy Caul & Jaime Imbeault
Location: Kekabeka Falls in Thunder Bay, Ontario, Canada
Date: November 6, 2009

Jeremy & Jaime
Jeremy & Jaime

Jeremy writes:
Jaime, and I are students, living in Thunder Bay, ON, Canada. We’ve been together for almost two years now, and have lived together the whole time.

In October, my great-grandmother passed away, leaving me feeling like life was short. Since I love Jaime and was planning on proposing soon anyway, I decided to go out and get a ring. Once the ring was in my coat pocket, I knew I couldn’t wait.

Three days later, during the four-hour drive home for the funeral, we stopped at Kekabeka falls; a local falls just outside Thunder Bay. My excuse was that I needed to take some pictures for my photography class, which was partially true. We walked around the falls a while taking some pics, and it was the first beautiful, sunny day in a long stretch of rainy days – this is how I knew that today was the day.

I asked her to pose for a picture, leaning on the rail looking towards the falls with her back to me. I didn’t even take the picture but when I told her I was done, she turned around and I was on one knee with the ring box open in my hand. She didn’t even let me stand up to put the ring on! She was so excited that she immediately dropped to her knees to give me a hug and kiss, nearly knocking the ring out of her hand.

Today, we are happier than ever. We hope to graduate and begin working in three years time, and then we will have our wonderful wedding. The date we have just chosen is August 23, 2013 – which will be our 5 and a half year anniversary. I love my wife-to-be, and we plan on having a great, long, life together.

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Grace’s Tip of the Day: Cheering up a Friend

By Social Grace
Blue Daisy at Monticello
Image by Tony the Misfit via Flickr

Flowers are always the best bet for cheering up your best friend’s day! Studies have proven that flowers improve a girls spirits more than any other present, that is except for maybe a ring!

All of us have our moments of frustration. If you notice a friend is in the slumps sometimes talking about it doesn’t help. Sending a note along with a bright bouquet will lift their mood considerably. Just because gifts are always the most surprising to receive and the most rewarding to give.

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