Archive for February, 2010

TIWH: February 28th

By Tia Ayers
Princess Elizabeth

Princess Elizabeth

February 28, 1987
Princess Elizabeth of Yugoslavia & Dr. Manuel Ulloa Elias

Although this royal Elizabeth isn’t as well known as the British monarch of the same name, she is a distant cousin of the queen. The member of the Serbian-Yugoslavian royal family married for the third time on this day in 1987.

The princess married Dr. Manuel Olloa Elias, the former Prime Minister of Peru. At the time of their marriage, he was serving as Peru’s Minister of Economy, Finance and Commerce.

The two married in New York City. Due to Elias’ passing in 1992, their marriage only lasted five years. Since his death, the princess has put her energy into human rights activism, politics and writing.

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TIWH: February 27th

By Tia Ayers

February 27, 1987
Conway Twitty & Dolores Virginia Henry

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Conway Twitty

One of the most celebrated country musicians of the 20th Century, Conway Twitty (born Harold Jenkins) married his third wife, Dolores Virginia Henry twenty-three years ago today.

Dolores “Dee” Henry met the star, known for his hits “The Image of Me”, “Next in Line” and “Hello Darlin’” when she worked for him. After their marriage, she co-produced several of his albums.

Twitty passed away while on tour in 1993. In the years since his death, Mrs. Jenkins has been dedicated to keeping his legacy alive by releasing his hits and being on hand when he was posthumously inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame in 1999.

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Results: Proposal of the Week Contest

By Tia Ayers

This week’s contest was neck and neck and neck, but a new couple pulled ahead at the end. Congratulations to Laura Clontz and Wesley Hargrove. Come back next week to see how they fare against their new challengers!

Laura Clontz & Wesley Hargrove
Location: Santa Barbara, CA
Date: November 25, 2009

Wesley & Laura

Wesley & Laura

Laura writes:
Wesley and I have known of each other since elementary school. He was in love with my best friend in fifth grade.

We “went out” in eighth grade for a month or so. Different middle schools was so rough, and it didn’t last. In high school, we became great friends and started dating again sophomore year. When it was time for college, I stayed in our hometown, and he went off to Santa Barbara, California, where he’s been most of the year for the last four years. Even with the long distance, we knew that we were perfect. In total, we will have been together for six years this March.

In November, I came to visit from Texas for Thanksgiving and Wesley’s birthday. He took me to a beach that we often visited during the summer we lived in Santa Barbara, with cliffs overlooking the beach and the ocean. It was sunset, which is our favorite time of day. As we sat and talked on the cliffs, Wesley said he wanted to go down to the beach. We both stood up, but instead of walking down the cliffs, he knelt down, took the ring out of his pocket, and asked me to marry him.

I said yes, and he told me that the people behind us with cameras were his friends taking pictures of us, so we now have pictures from the actual proposal! We spent the rest of the night on the phone with family and friends!

We’re now planning our marriage on October 23, 2010 here in Texas. And even though we’re still 1600+ miles apart, we know that there is nothing else that we would rather be doing. This is love.

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TIWH: February 26th

By Daniella Flores

February 26th, 2009
Tom Brady & Gisele Bundchen

Bundchen & Brady

Bundchen & Brady

Many were shocked to find out that these two lovebirds were discretely married in a small ceremony at St. Monica Catholic Church in Santa Monica, California, after only one month of engagement. Yet by the way Bundchen has described their relationship, can you really blame them for doing so?

“I already feel that way,” she revealed in a Vanity Fair interview a few days before her secret wedding. “We’ve been together over two years; we’ve been living together. My idea of that is you have a partner who’s got your back. When I’m weak, you can be strong; when I’m strong, you can be weak. That’s what I believe marriage is. Loving someone, you want to grow with them, share with them, share the same values, the same feelings about things, the same beliefs.”

After meeting through a friend in December of 2006, they’ve kept that ideal going through thick and thin, even when it was revealed two months into their relationship that Brady’s ex-girlfriend Bridget Moynahan was pregnant with his son. They’re still going strong after one year of marriage.

Cheers to the happy couple!

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Lazy Susan: Elegance can come in small packages!

By Lazy Susan

Today, Social Grace lent some advice to a lady who wants a kid-free wedding. While her help is fine, Lazy Susan wanted to give her two cents.

If having kids at your wedding goes against your style, here’s some ways to deal with those problem children:

1. Free labor. Put those kids to work. They can carry trays, clear tables and wash dishes. Let the parents know that if they want their kids to be present, they better be ready to earn their keep. The best part? You can pay the rugrats in cake.

2. Pick a venue that’s 21 and over only. It’ll probably have to be a bar or casino, but it might be the only way.

3. Trickery is the best policy. Tell your young nieces, nephews and cousins they can come, but they have to get a shot, eat brussel sprouts… and take a bath.

4. Wait until all the children in your family have reached adulthood. But be prepared that you’ll have to delay the wedding by 18 years for each new child born into the family (including your own!)

5. Put your foot down. Stick to your guns. After all, it is your wedding. By the way, this will be the last time you’ll see your family because they will never invite you to another party/wedding after this.

Don’t like these ideas? Fine, you can always take Social Grace‘s advice.

EDITOR’S NOTE: Lazy Susan’s advice is purely for entertainment value. You should never actually listen to her. For your best outcome, always do what Social Grace says.

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Ask Grace: Elegance can come in small packages!

By Social Grace

Dear Social Grace,

My husband and I really want to have an elegant wedding but it’s proven impossible because my siblings and cousins have a huge amount of offspring. I want to say no kids at the wedding, but even when I hinted at the idea, my family had an uproar. How do I get a grown-up event when a third of my family is under 15?

From,

Killjoy in San Francisco

Dear Killjoy,

I completely understand wanting to have an elegant, beautiful and calm wedding. However, since you have so many family members under-age it will be difficult to say absolutely no kids. If just hinting at the idea put your family in a frenzy then you certainly need some options!

Before I give you these options let me say this: kids really do benefit by getting the opportunity to dress up and “act like a grown-up”, and they are your family, one day they will be older and you might regret not giving them the chance to be with you on your family’s special day.

If you still don’t love the idea of kid attendees then here are some ways you can compromise:

1. You could pay a baby sitter to keep the kid guests busy during the ceremony/ reception with age appropriate activities and games.

2. You can plan to have the entire family (little ones included) attend your ceremony and then have an adult only reception. This would require pushing your reception back at least an hour to give your family members the opportunity to drop their kids off at a friend’s house. After the kids get situated with a babysitter/ friend or other non-invited loved one you can be sure to have the elegant night you have been waiting for!

Hope your wedding is fun & relaxing for you and the whole family!

xoxo,

Grace

EDITOR’S NOTE: Just for fun, check out what Lazy Susan has to say.

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TIWH: February 25th

By Daniella Flores

February 25, 1958
Paulette Goddard & Erich Maria Remarque

Remarque & Goddard

Remarque & Goddard

Remarque was famous German author of the novel All Quiet on the Western Front. It gave him access to the Hollywood world, where he was romantically linked to women such as Greta Garbo and Marlene Dietrich. Goddard on the other hand was an actress that starred in several movies, including Charlie Chaplin’s Modern Times, and had married two, maybe even three times before!

Their lifestyles allowed their paths to cross in 1947 in a Beverly Hills flower shop, and the relationship became serious in 1951. Though there were rumors of them getting married in Milan, Rome, and New York, the happy couple quietly sneaked off to Branford, Connecticut and had a simple ceremony in a town court on February 25th 1958.

Despite their seemingly conflicting personalities, it seems as if this marriage was truly full of love since it didn’t end until Remarque’s death in 1970.

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The Memory Lapse Proposal

By Tia Ayers

Craig and Nicole had been together for three years when he decided to pop the question. To do it, he opted to recreate their first date.

So on a Saturday afternoon, Craig picked Nicole up at her apartment and took her to a nice park for a romantic picnic lunch. He had filled his picnic basket with gourmet sandwiches and a bottle of wine.

They sat on a blanket and enjoyed their surroundings —  the green grass, the blue sky and crisp clouds floating by.

“This is so romantic,” Nicole said.

“I know,” Craig said. “Just like our first date.”

Nicole raised her eyebrows.

“Not exactly,” she said.

This didn’t phase Craig.

“Yeah, it’s a much nicer day than it was back then,” he said, looking up at the sky.

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The two continued eating and finally it was time for Craig to propose.

“Nicole,” he said mustering up the courage. “I brought you here for a reason. I’ve loved you ever since our first date. That’s why I brought you on this picnic… to recreate our first date. And now I’d like to know, if you’ll be my wife?”

He pulled the ring box out of his pocket and held it out for her.

Nicole was speechless.

“Um,” Nicole said after a long beat of silence. “Craig, I love you too. But I have to tell you something. This is not where we had our first date.”

“What? Yeah it is,” he insisted.

“No, it isn’t. We went to dinner at a seafood restaurant and I ended up with food poisoning.”

Craig scratched his head with a confused look.

“But, I could have sworn…” he said racking his brain trying to remember.

“Nope. I’ve never been here before.”

It was then that Craig remembered that this wasn’t the location of their first date after all. It was actually the location of the first date he had with his previous girlfriend, Monica.

Embarrassment overcame him. Nicole recognized that look.

“What? Wait, don’t tell me. This is where you took Monica on your first date?”

“Um, yeah,” he admitted sheepishly.

“I can’t believe this,” Nicole replied.

What do you think? Should Nicole forgive him or is this mistake inexcusable?

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TIWH: February 24th

By Daniella Flores

February 24, 1992
Kurt Cobain & Courtney Love

Love & Cobain

Love & Cobain

Courtney Love met Kurt Cobain during one of Cobain’s shows in Portland Oregon in 1989, when both their bands were still partaking in the underground scene, and were formally introduced in May of 1991. While her initial advances were shot down by Cobain, he eventually gave in to her.

After finding out that Love was pregnant with daughter Francis Bean, the couple married on February 24, 1992 on Waikiki Beach in Hawaii. Cobain wore his pajamas, and Love wore a dress that originally belonged to Francis Farmer.

Though their marriage was tumultuous and ended tragically with Cobain’s suicide in 1994, Love manages to keep their love alive. It took her more than twelve years to auction many of his belongings, and she claims she still wears his pajamas.

“How am I ever going to go form another relationship in my lifetime wearing Kurt’s pajamas?” she has said.

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Grace’s Tip of the Day: Visiting a New Home

By Social Grace
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Image by DaveAustria.com via Flickr

When visiting a new home remember two important rules: use coasters and don’t put shoes on any upholstery.

These two very simple rules are often overlooked but must never be forgotten! First, use coasters, it doesn’t matter if it’s an antique or if it’s IKEA,  it doesn’t belong to you, so show some respect!

Second, if it has a sole don’t put it on fabric! It might be okay to put your shoes on your own furniture but at someone’s home, avoid being the cause of the mess!

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